Integrity: It's Not Time To Change Your Oil Yet!

December 3, 2013
Although I'm confident the title needs no explanation allow me to flesh it out a little. If you're like me you've been burned enough by sneaky auto service professionals to leave you permanently suspicious of them. Especially the guys in oil change centers where you walk out paying $100 bucks for a $30 oil change. Somehow they manage to talk me into paying them to change filters in my car that I'm pretty sure don't exist!

So now I get to tell you about Jiffy Lube in London Ontario, Canada. I had my oil changed there less than a month ago and every time you visit them they put a sticker in your window telling you what your odometer should read when your car's ready for its next oil change. The last time I had my oil changed there they told me I was good for another 10,000 kilometers. Now a few weeks later I look at the sticker they put on my window and its telling me I'm ready for another oil change. What, I've driven 10,000 kilometers in a few weeks!? Well I did take a trip into the States. It didn't feel like 10,000 kilometers but...the sticker doesn't lie. Knowing something was odd I drove my car back to Jiffy Lube for my next oil change. As they're guiding me in one of the guys comes up to my window and says, "Hey, I recognize you. You were here just a few weeks ago. You don't need an oil change yet!". I say "Ya, it feels too soon but the sticker says I'm do for an oil change already." The guy takes a look at the sticker and says "Sticker's wrong. You're good to go for another 4000 kilometers".

HE DID NOT NEED TO SAY THIS!

He could easily have smiled and started changing my clean oil and I never would have been the wiser. He could have separated me from $70 or $80 of my hard-earned dollars and laughed at me with the rest of his buddies as I drove away. But he didn't!

His decision made a big impression on me. That kind of integrity always makes a big impression on me. I have deep, abiding respect for those that live life by a strong moral code they don't deviate from even when no one is watching. Do you know someone with this kind of integrity? Are you this kind of person? I try to be, but often fail. I'm glad I sometimes meet people like this Jiffy Lube attendant. They challenge me and remind me: nobody's perfect, but I should never stop trying to be better...
 

Thank goodness for amazing people!

October 13, 2013
Over the past few days I've been vacationing in Massachusetts. I've been here before and LOVED IT!

In the weeks leading up to this vacation I had been daydreaming about all the wonderful things I would do and the amazing things I would see. Well, as is often the case, this time reality didn't match up with my expectations.

It took me hours to get across the border from Canada into the US, and then, a few hundred meters after passing through US customs my car started misbehaving. I went to acc...
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Cool in a Crisis

September 26, 2013
I know this is a bit of a departure, but I've decided I'm going to use this blog in two ways: 1) To talk about all things music, and 2) To relate the stories of people whose actions and character inspire me. In this installment I'd like to explore the phenomenon of staying calm in the midst of a crisis. Recently a new story highlighted this phenomenon. It was about Antoinette Tuff, a school clerk in Georgia. A typical day took a sudden terrible turn when Antoinette was  confronted by an armed...
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Fall is Here!

September 17, 2013
I love fall! - the cool weather, the bare trees, Halloween. Everyone seems to be hunkering down, settling in, making preparations for the winter. It's such a bitter sweet time. Nature is slowly winding down, colours turn from green to grey. But there are also fall fairs and festivals everywhere. Everyone celebrating another bountiful harvest, and enjoying each others company. All the revelry seems to mock the death and decay nipping at nature's heels. So get out there and tell a few ghost sto...
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The Dress Rehearsal

May 31, 2012
I was at Will Ackerman's Imaginary Road studio last week. What an experience! Brattleboro, the town closest to Will, is the epitome of Quaint - beautifully restored storefronts downtown. Many vibrant little eateries, and cozy, disorganized used bookstores. I met Will in a bright coffee shop. We hadn't seen each other before but we immediately recognized each other. Will is warm and approachable.  He talks just as easily about his good times as he does his bad. I was very surprised at how grou...
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Update on Album Recording

April 26, 2012
So the studio date is getting closer and closer (June 4th) and I'm getting pretty excited. I'll actually be going down to meet my producer Will Ackerman and see his studio in Vermont on May 21. I'll be driving through the beautiful spring mountain scenery and if you visit Will's website you'll see he has an amazing spot http://imaginaryroadstudios.com set right in the middle of it all. Will has kindly suggested that I spend some time getting used to the piano I'll be playing, an amazing Stein...
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The Violin & The Piano

March 1, 2012
As most of you have probably noticed by now, I've been incorporating more of my violin into my songs. Violin was my first instrument. I started playing when I was very young - back before I knew that learning a musical instrument was hard. At that age, your brain is like an eager puppy that's up for anything, "What, learn the violin, ya I'm totally into that!". Somehow, without much practice, or focused attention I did manage to get proficient on the instrument. Then high school happened and ...
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Me & My Musical Insecurities

January 29, 2012
When it comes to the music I write I am horrible at knowing which songs are good and which aren't. Some songs that I really get excited about don't seem to stir much in anyone else. Some songs I'm almost sheepish to share with others end up getting a favourable response. Why is it that I have such difficulty predicting what others will like? I sometimes try to resolve the issue by saying "Just do what you like and let the chips fall where they may." but when it comes time to share the songs w...
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Music I Shouldn't Like

December 31, 2011
I know the music I should like and the music I shouldn't. I know I should like Mahler, and Liszt, and The Cowboy Junkies, and Lou Reed. This stuff is intelligent, erudite. I should be drinking a Manhattan, and wearing a hat (not a cap) when I listen to it. I know this. But then why do I like REO Speedwagon, and Glee, and old gospel music? Not cool at all. Sure I like some stuff that's "hip" and "out there" like Tom Waits and Nick Drake. I talk about these with pride. And try to hid...
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Music as Unfiltered Communication

November 26, 2011
I've always been fascinated by the way music can speak to us so powerfully and how it bypasses interpretation. In conventional human communication research shows that we perceive a message and then have to interpret it in order to make sense of it. Music pushes that cumbersome process aside and speaks directly to our emotions. It conjures up memories so vivid we can almost taste and smell them, it flings open a window and penetrates our ignorant darkness with  insight. It can inspire us to co...
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